We know that reading sharpens the brain, expands vocabulary and develops judgment. But research now shows that literature seems to improve our emotional quotient (EQ) as well is our IQ. The School of Social Research in New York, found that readers of literary fiction (sorry pulp fiction didn’t count) scored higher than any other group on a test designed to rate empathy. Participants looked at photographs of subjects and fervent readers could usually correctly identify whether the person was angry, upset, sad etc.
Understanding what others are feeling is critical to our social relationships. So even though reading is a self-contained pursuit it could influence your work and social life in a positive way. When we read a novel and relate to a character we also feel understood ourselves, or, perhaps something we always thought was true is validated in a book.
Novelists put our thoughts and feelings into words. This may actually improve mental health. Of course it is possible that people with high EQs are naturally drawn to literature (rather than literature imparting this “skill”) – did the chicken or the egg come first? Whatever – pick up a good book … it’s good for you …. And maybe even the people around you!
Makes sense: if you are mentally and emotionally well-balanced you are better equipped to handle life and easier to be around.
Great novels can be transformative and get into your subconscious in a more primal way than self-help books. Several therapists, “bibliotherapists” if you will, in fact “prescribe” certain books for therapeutic reading on a case by case basis. They are not saying books cure problems, but rather offer support or comfort. Here are a few examples from Ella Berthould and Susan Elderkin who say that feedback is 99% positive:
The Color Purple by Alice Walker; Their Eyes Were Watching God by Zora N. Hurston; The Enchanted April by Elizabeth von Arnim; Jitterbug Perfume by Tom Robbins; Family Matters by Rohintin Mistry; What I Loved by Siri Hustvedt (this latter is for bereavement, especially for those who have lost a child).
We often hear people say a book changed their life. For me I’d say John Steinbeck’s novels “upped” my EQ. Have you had a similar experience? What are some of your favorites?
A Place in the World 
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Sad to admit it, but one of my favorite re-readable books is The Witch of Blackbird Pond. Only a juvenile novel, it deals with the topic of rejection, cultural differences and what really matters in life. Even though I know what is coming next, I love reading it again and again.
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I haven’t read it but I have certainly heard that it is a popular book so you don’t need to be apologetic. At any rate something resonated with you and that is what reading is all about. The themes are universal – maybe I’ll put it on my to-read list.
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It will keep you company like an old and loved friend.
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All true… and I MUST read The Colour Purple.
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The book that really took me out of my skin was The Painted Bird by Jerzy Kosinski.
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I haven’t read it Jan – maybe it should it be on my reading list. I loved “Being There.” Thanks for being so loyal to this blog!
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Interesting concept, Cinda! I immediately started thinking of all the books I loved to read as a child. I was a voracious reader, but I’m not sure all the mythology and fantasy I read made a positive contribution to my EQ (with the possible exception of The Hobbit). Books that do come to mind are The Yearling, The Once and Future King, and The Snow Goose.
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I’m sure you have a solid EQ, having just finished reading your “Passage of the Stork” – a memoir written in a unique style! (I loved “The Snow Goose” – one of the few books that has moved around with me for decades – and keep thinking I will read again. Thanks for reminding me.)
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